Okay, So last week my friend had a pretty bad fall with her horse. I don't know the details but I think that she was jumping a little to high for the horses ability (unfortunately she sets really high goals for herself and wants to meet them even if it means acting foolishly). Her horse took a rail down but some freak thing happened and the jump standards fell over while they were still in air and the horse landed on it and flipped and fell on her. The horse is ok, shaken obviously but other than that he's fine, and Kirstin (my friend) didn't have any real serious injuries, but she's been telling me how much it's shaken her confidence. She's considering giving up riding. I thought she was crazy when she first told me, I mean she's fallen of to many times to count, but I guess this one got to her. I mean it's her decision, but this girl has talent more than anyone her age I've seen before. And she's really rushing the decision. She's having a couple people look at her horse as potential buyers. I don't want to convince her to ride again really, that's her decision, but does anyone know anyway I could try and convince her to slow the decision down and not jump into things that she won't be able to undo. I've tried everything I know of.